Nigerian singer, Simi has shared insightful advice with a 22-year-old fan on Snapchat, addressing her concerns about dating a 30-year-old man with a child.
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The fan, seeking anonymity, had asked Simi for guidance on navigating her parents’ likely disapproval of the relationship.
Simi emphasized that the decision depends on what both parties want out of the relationship, highlighting that having a child, especially from a previous relationship, is a significant factor.
She noted that it shows how involved the man is in his child’s life and how attached or detached the fan is to this aspect.
Simi cautioned against making decisions solely on emotions, advising the fan to consider the long-term implications. “If you’re only doing this because you ‘love him so much’, don’t,” she said.
Instead, Simi suggested trusting that the fan’s parents will understand and support her decision or being prepared to make the choice without their approval.
However, she reminded the fan of the significant age gap and potential life experience differences.
“You’re an adult, but you’re still mad young. He’s seen more life than you. So make sure you’re sure outside of him,” Simi concluded.
The singer’s advice instantly sparked a mix of reactions, with some praising her honesty while others debated the age gap and parental dynamics.
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Netizens react:
@luckyolisa: “This advice is so wholesome”
@prettyi_oyce: “22 years dating a single Dad? Is it not too early for her to inherit stress?”
@precioushair.ng: “Love is not enough. When you enter your eyes go clear”
@martinsblack.ng: “Women!! see comment section but if it was a single mum another story. Men dey suffer..”
@L_am_tohree: “You guys don’t like pizza or fried yam?”
@nma_hrh: “Omo I can’t advise anyone to date a single dad o. The wahala no be here.”
@she_sentinels: “Dont do it… let parents date parents…”
@africanflamingo_: “She should focus more on bettering herself, finding her path and making money at young age than love. Merci”
