A woman took to social media to seek advice from netizens on whether she should proceed with her wedding in the face of her partner’s infidelity.
The woman who goes by the handle @not_nitaa disclosed that her wedding is in six months, but she discovered that her fiance is still seeing his ex, and they have been meeting frequently.
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@not_nitaa wondered if she should call off the wedding. She, however, expressed that she is afraid she might not see another man who will be ready to marry her afterwards.
“Not me finding out that my fiancé is still seeing his ex and they’ve been meeting frequently, our wedding is the next 6months.
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“I’m conflicted about the decision I should make, also if I call the wedding off what if I don’t find a guy that’ll see me as a potential wife,” she tweeted.
Not me finding out that my fiancé is still seeing his ex and they’ve been meeting frequently, our wedding is the next 6months 🥺 I’m conflicted about the decision I should make, also if I call the wedding off what if I don’t find a guy that’ll see me as a potential wife. 😭
— 🦋 (@not_nitaa) August 15, 2024
Netizens react:
@charminghela_: “Weda we advice you or not, na the thing wey Dey your mind you go still do 😂😂.”
@__plug__macks: “Low self esteem is this you. Get out of her immediately.”
@oma_m52: “If it were him he would leave you without a second thought. Dey play.”
@manlike.nate: “If you leave him now he will see you more because now you’ll be an ex. 😂.”
@slxy_junior_: “You saw the red flags baby, but you ignored the red flags baby😭😂.”
@02blockboyyy___: “what if the ex na all those suprise event planners i’m just sayin.”
@temmy_baiby: “Kudos to those that easily let go of their exes. 👏.”
@__.k.a.y.l.a_: “Go along with the wedding plans and leave him on the altar.”
@_hassanahh: “Having so many “what ifs” in your head will only set you back. It’s not too late to move on and start all over again. I used to have silly thoughts like this too until I started affirming positive things to myself. I’m worthy of the love I give. I’m worthy of everything beautiful life has to offer me. Start with positive affirmations! That thing you think you won’t achieve, you’ll achieve more!”
@exquisitelykhenny_: “Desperation and low self esteem Dey cry for your hand.”
@d_caretakers: “If you’re seeing this, all you need to do is confront him now that it is early. You need full time clarity or you leave with your head intact.”
@sheezah_collections: “The last statement is screaming low self esteem.”
@diorammafabrics: “If low self esteem was a person 😢.”
@d_marketseller: “Why is this on social media! Tough decisions aint made on social media. Go see a mentor or a professional. Nna ehn.”