Nigerian writer and life coach, Solomon Buchi, has taken to his Twitter page to advise unmarried people to stay away from sex.
Solomon Buchi, who described sex before marriage as “abnormal”, gave three reasons why it should be avoided.
According to him, couples can date without getting intimate. He said sex before marriage is “human depravity” not fun.
Giving reasons why it should be avoided, he tweeted, “Your head will be clear; your mind won’t be fogged by orgasms. It will be easier to walk away, and most importantly, you honor your body unto the Lord.”
See his post below:
You can date without sex. You should do it. Your head will be clear; your mind won’t be fogged by orgasms. It will be easier to walk away, and most importantly, you honor your body unto the Lord. Sex before marriage is not normal. It’s not fun. It’s human depravity.
— Solomon Buchi (@Solomon_Buchi) March 22, 2023
See reactions:
@ebun_ti_oluwa: “Ok, so how do we now convince these men that we can date without having sex? I’m single because there’s no man that wants to date without having sex. It’s crazy out there!”
@EzemaEKalu: “In Christianity, there is nothing like dating but rather courting which should results to marriage, and even while courting with marriage in view, boundaries in words and actions are none negotiable.”
@Ellepeter: “True but when you get married and you’re both not sexually compatible what happens next?”
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@DamilolaIyebiye: “If you can easily walk away because sex is not involved says a lot about your level of commitment. I don’t think you should date anyone you can easily walk away from in the first place. If you can easily walk away then you are not a honest partner.”
@OmotolaniAdeda3: “So make I come marry find out say my husband no sabi do the do. Something I would have known earlier.”