A Nigerian lady, Obianma Onya has shared why a woman might not be bothered about her partner cheating on her.
In a post on Facebook on Thursday, Onya listed two reasons. According to her, one of it might be the cause
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She said it is either the woman doesn’t love her man or she is cheating too.
“If you’re not bothered about him cheating on you, then it’s either of 2 things:
1. You don’t love him.
2. You’re cheating too,” Onya wrote.
Netizens react:
@healthymeatplace: “I don’t agree with this it might simple mean the woman is now interested in her peace of mind, she might have been bothered about him cheating over the years but now she needs her sanity.”
@ayaolaide_hair1: “Anywhere there’s Love there’s jealousy 📌.”
@adelakuntufayl: “The first time I am seeing a post from Facebook that speaks so much sense! 👏👏👏👏👏.”
@ok_lounge: “Every love has abit of jealousy in it.even Gods love.but for your peace,sanity,try disconnect so your kids can have a father.Sometimes,love would hurt you but don’t panic.Love yourself more and be intentional about it and your happiness.”
@adasbeautymary: “Not necessarily true, sometimes you have leave things that you have no control over for your peace of mind ,and self esteem.”
@stellamaris_ella: “You are cooking his payback.”
@dr_chiamakaobi: “My chief consultant family physician🔥🔥🔥with the words on marble❤️.”
@chicavenue.officia: “Oh my God!!! Not every thought that crosses the mind ,should be uttered verbally or typed for the world to see..cause how????”
@c._hioma: “So I should be chasing him with cutlass?”
@tegariyah: “sometimes for your peace of mind and for the kids to have a father you never hard! some men are bad husband but good fathers👌.”
@andreawizzy: “So people still Dey do love for Nigeria?😳😳😳😳in this economy? This one shock me fr.”
@unclekros: “Can be both.”
@staycey2.0: “Even if I’m cheating…. I’ll cry ehen.”
@sammyvogue: “It’s crucial for individuals to realize that the connection between a man and a woman should transcend mere physical intimacy. Each person expresses love uniquely, and infidelity shouldn’t automatically end a marriage. It’s essential to foster a deeper understanding of the emotional, mental, and spiritual aspects of relationships, emphasizing communication, trust, and mutual respect as foundational pillars for a lasting and fulfilling union. Let’s put an end to this misconception already, it’s promoting false belief and assumption.”