A Nigerian man, identified as Suleiman Enesi on Facebook, has sparked online debate with his sharp condemnation of men who borrow money to impress ladies.
Enesi took to social media to express his disapproval of men who prioritize borrowing money for women while neglecting their financial responsibilities.
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In his post, Enesi called out what he described as the “foolish behavior” by men who become anxious when asked for money by women.
“A lot of you guys are naturally stupid,” he wrote. He criticized men who, despite being broke, go to great lengths to avoid appearing financially unstable to women, even borrowing from friends just to meet these demands.
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Enesi questioned why these men are willing to go the extra mile for women but hesitate to help their male friends when asked for financial assistance.
“When your fellow guy asks you for financial assistance, you bluntly give unrealistic excuses,” he pointed out, concluding his post with the advice, “It’s not just money you lack; try to get some sense.”
His post has since sparked mixed reactions on social media, with some agreeing with his sentiments while others argue for different perspectives on relationships and financial expectations.
See the post below:
Nigerian man berates broke men who borrow money to give to girls pic.twitter.com/WMjgaQ39TU
— YabaLeftOnline (@yabaleftonline) August 27, 2024
Netizens react:
@Avocado: “i can borrow for my current gf as in the girl don too help me for this life, but for other girls that only ask i cant”
@Ibukun: “Better to hurt a man, than to hurt a woman. A man will understand, a woman wouldn’t understand.
Why go into debt?”
@Nifer: “Maturity is knowing when to say NO, regardless of the gender of the friend”
@Elian: “If the person begged for money is not ashamed to beg. Why should I be ashamed to say I don’t have?”
@Paul: “Some men just mumu for life and at the end of the day that girl go later still leav u na Just matter of time!!”