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Nigerian lady criticizes divorce motivations, marriage expectation

Nigerian lady criticizes divorce motivations, marriage expectation 1

A Nigerian lady, identified as Nneka Evelyn Obasi, sparked heated online debate after sharing her controversial views on divorce and marriage through a Facebook post. 

Obasi claimed that many women opt for divorce not because of maltreatment but to gain freedom and “pepper” their ex-husbands.

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She expressed disbelief at the reasons behind some divorces, stating that in many cases, women who appeared well-treated in their marriages left to pursue personal independence after listening to external advice.

In her post, she questioned, “Who is stopping women from growing in their husband’s house? Must they separate before they start doing the needful?”

The conversation continued, with other social media users weighing in. One commenter argued that marriage naturally involves rules and commitments, stating, “If you want total freedom to live life without any obligations or restrictions, then marriage isn’t for you.”

The post, which has since garnered mixed reactions, advised women to reconsider marriage if they seek absolute freedom, warning that such desires often lead to divorce and the social label of “divorcee.”

Netizens react:

@Canice: “Imagine marrying a lady that charges 100k for sex per night.
Short time, 40k.
And she gets customers steadily.
Imagine marrying her and you earn 150 to 200k per month.
Oga, if you don’t give her freedom to continue that her lucrative business, she will see it as Domestic Violence.
She will cry for people to believe her and she will mean it.
You dey whyne?😄”

@Emmanuel: “That’s very true! There’s high levels, of incompatibility, these days. In marriage.”

@Bob: “Am in one group like that come and see the reason why most women are leaving their husband’s house even tagging their husband narcissist just to romance their ego”

@Loveth: “Exactly they will now start blaming their laziness and unaccountability on marriage. With their uzeless quotes of marriage cages women 🤡 But na still the same cage naim 5million women on dating app wan try enter so 🤡 Women ehn 😂 I no just understand”

@Alfred: “I disagree , when married , the women were complacent and contented , after divorce they need to show people and impress , they put extra effort and work on themselves , see a fat woman during marriage suddenly becomes slim and trim after marriage , was the husband feeding her during marriage, A lazy woman during marriage now gets a job, who prevented her in the first place , the urge to impress and prove a point forces them to work harder after divorce”

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