A British man claims that his relationship with his girlfriend has improved since he recommended she sleep with other men while he’s at work.
Matt, who did not reveal his last name, opened up about his wild four-year romance with Zoe in an interview for the YouTube series “Love Don’t Judge.”
He, 36, and Zoe, 31, had only been together for a few months when he advised her to start having sex with other guys.
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“When she agreed to it, I was happy, because I’d been cheated on [before], so I was quite happy to find someone who wasn’t gonna cheat back,” Matt said.
The unique arrangement managed to erase Matt’s worries from prior relationships while also opening new levels of trust, closeness, and communication with Zoe.
He suggested that Zoe videotape her encounters with the male strangers, which she consented to.
“You’d send me pictures, videos,” Matt recalled to Zoe. “I ended up being [virtually] immersed in it… It was like seeing my own amateur porn.”
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Matt admitted to the show that all of Zoe’s sex partners were “young” and “good-looking,” which makes him jealous.
“It’s quite a nice feeling, even though it’s jealousy,” he said. “Because at the end of the day, you know you’re in, and she’s coming home to me.”
Soon after she started having sex with strangers, Zoe urged that her partner start sleeping with other women as well — but a bashful Matt stated he was hesitant.
“I never wanted to sleep with anyone else,” he explained to Zoe. “[But] you said you wanted to see me do it.”
He eventually accepted, and the pair is still in their quasi-open relationship after four years, though they have tight limits.
The couple is unable to conceal secrets from one another and is permitted to prevent the other from sleeping with anyone they dislike.
Zoe and Matt both have children and say they will eventually discuss their unconventional romance when their offspring are old enough to understand.
Meanwhile, the kinky couple insists they’ll keep sleeping with other people and ignore critics.
“We have so much fun,” Zoe exclaimed. “We really enjoy each other’s company!”