A Nigerian man has painfully narrated how his wife and others manipulated him into having children before he was fully ready for the task.
The wife planned with her mum, mother-in-law and pastor’s wife to stay off contraceptives without her husband’s knowledge.
In screenshots posted on Twitter by @Naija_PR, the husband revealed that when he got married, he and his wife agreed to enjoy their marriage for at least two years and become more financially stable before they start having kids.
He also told her to ignore people who were always asking why they weren’t pregnant yet. They were both under 30 years old at the time.
However, in a shocking turn of events, the woman decided to enact a plan to get pregnant with the aid of her mother, mother-in-law and pastor’s wife.
The husband said he was left heartbroken when she announced she was pregnant four months into the marriage and later had twins. That was when he learned about the plan hatched behind his back.
Now with twin babies, he said that his plan to be more financially stable before having kids has been destroyed, and he is now struggling.
He also added that out of all the people she planned with, only his mum has been able to help with their present money situation.
“She put us in financial problem…” he lamented.
Netizens have condemned the woman’s behaviour, with many claiming that she has ruined the trust in the marriage.
View the tweet below:
His wife really let him down. How should he handle it and move on? pic.twitter.com/naxup8ttbX
— Naija (@Naija_PR) November 11, 2022
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