Pastor Bolaji Idowu has observed that most women are not essentially seeking financial security in relationships but rather want to avoid being the sole provider for their partners.
Speaking yesterday, he explained that women often seek partners who are financially self-sufficient, reflecting on how the financial burdens borne by their mothers as youth negatively impacted their well-being at old age.
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Pastor Idowu advised that women should seek partners who exhibit consistent growth rather than those with grand but unproven visions.
He explained that a “pattern” represents steady progress, while a “vision” is more speculative and future-oriented.
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He urged women to be involved in their partners’ development rather than waiting for a fully accomplished individual.
Additionally, Pastor Idowu addressed men, acknowledging that while some women are focused on financial support, others are genuinely seeking love rather than sponsorship.
Watch him speak below:
“A lot of women are not looking for money. They just want to make sure that they will not be the one taking care of the man…”
– Pastor Bolaji pic.twitter.com/E9EKIOiGkI
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