There is a general belief that bad girls get good men while the good girls end up with the bad ones. While that is debatable, indeed, many women don’t know how to communicate their feelings for the men they like. Every woman wants to know how to make a man fall in love. You’ve met a man you like, and you’re not quite sure how to communicate your feelings to him and get him to fall in love with you. Or you guys are in the early stages of a relationship, but you’re not sure of his feelings for you.
If you’re at this table and want to know what makes a man fall in love, this article is for you.
What makes a man fall in love
Show that you respect and appreciate him
A man wants a woman who respects him. He wants a woman who appreciates him for who he is. A man wants a woman who sees the hero in him, his ability to provide and protect. He doesn’t want to be emasculated in a relationship with you. Your femininity should match his masculine energy. He will literarily die for your love once you can “get” him.
Don’t try to change him
Men generally avoid women who try to change them. Once you show your man that you respect and accept who he is, please maintain that energy. Do not try to change him to what he’s not to suit your standards. He’s not a project to be fixed. Understand that he’s a human being with plenty of flaws. Once he sees that you love him the way he is, he will change on his own because he is head over heels in love with you.
Give him some space
Yeah, men don’t like clingy women. Resist the urge to smother him with love. So my dear, assert some level of independence. Show him that your world doesn’t revolve around him while you love him. You have other things that occupy your time. Once he sees that you’re a woman who has self-love, he’ll make an effort to get your attention.
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Don’t play hard to get
Back in the day, we were taught that the best way to get a man to fall in love is to play hard to get. That belief doesn’t apply to today’s men. A man wants an approachable woman. A woman who doesn’t stress him when he “toasts” her. Men don’t like women who play mind games. They appreciate women going straight for what they want. Be that woman and respond positively to his advances if you like him. That will make him fall in love with you.
Be vulnerable around him
Hey, we’re all for being an independent woman who can live without a man. But it doesn’t hurt to show your man your vulnerable side. Men generally love soft women because they bring out the masculine need to provide and protect. Vulnerability is a powerful emotion that brings you closer to your man.
Show interest in what he likes
Does your man love football? Then sit down with him and watch a match. Does he like to work out? Follow him to the gym. It would help if you didn’t do everything he likes. But the fact that you’ve shown interest will make him fall in love with you.
Laugh at his jokes
Even if they’re silly ones, laugh. Laughter is the medicine of life. Once your man sees you’re a cheerful person, he will relax and enjoy being around you.
Make some efforts in your physical appearance and health
Men are first attracted by what they see. No man wants to be with a woman who looks like she’s carrying the world’s burden. Put a lot of time in your looks and health. Wear nice clothes and footwear. Smell nice. Keep your hair clean and well-styled. Eat well. Take good care of your health. In other words, take good care of your physical hygiene. You’ll see him running after you.
Make eye contact
One of the effective ways to show a man you’re interested is to make eye contact with him often. Make quick and frequent glances at him if you’re the shy type. Making eye contact is an excellent component of flirtation which will attract him more to you.
Show him kindness and consideration
Men don’t like rude women. Be kind and polite to the man you’re interested in and others around you. Demonstrating your kind and considerate nature will increase his love for you.
Resist the urge to change your personality to get a man to fall in love with you. Changing yourself to get a man can only work temporarily and he will hate you for deceiving him. Men don’t appreciate fake women. Be yourself.
How to make a busy man fall in love
Dating a busy man can be pretty daunting. Sometimes he doesn’t pick up your calls. He’s not always around. He doesn’t respond to your chats. He doesn’t have your time. He’s so busy that you’re left feeling unwanted and ignored.
However, there are ways to make a busy man fall in love with you and enjoy a fulfilling relationship. These tips will help you figure them out.
Understand the motive behind his busy life
Before you get angry at your man, understand the reason why he is busy. If you dig deep, you may understand the motive behind his busy life. It could be family responsibilities and expectations, career goals etc. You may even find that he is busy because he wants to give you a happy life where you’ll lack nothing. So cut him some slack.
Act according to his schedule
A busy man is not an easy man to live with. But if you want a happy relationship, you have to make some adjustments to suit his busy schedule. Don’t intrude on his activities. There will be times when he will postpone spending time with you. Please don’t be angry. Make another arrangement to spend time with him. For instance, if he’s too busy to go on a trip with you on the weekend, make another arrangement for a less busy weekend. He will appreciate your efforts and fall in love with you.
Occupy yourself with other activities
One great thing about a busy man is he doesn’t have time to interfere with your life. Find something interesting to do to occupy your time. Not only will you avoid boredom, but your man will also feel guilty for leaving you all by yourself.
Tell him how you feel
In other words, speak up. Don’t bottle your feelings inside. Tell him how his busy schedule is affecting your relationship. Gently explain to him to make adjustments to have a healthy relationship with you. He will understand and love you more for being so open about your feelings.
Surprise him often
Your man is always busy. Why don’t you surprise him with materials that will help his work? For instance, if he’s a photographer, you can buy him a brand new camera or lighting equipment. You can take some meals to him at work. Surprises like that will make him fall in love with you.
Don’t expect too much from him
Does he forget to call you sometimes? It’s okay, don’t feel sad about it. Enjoy the available time he has for you and appreciate other beautiful things he does for you.
Give him peace of mind
A busy man is often exhausted at the end of the day. The best thing you can do is not to nag him. Give him peace of mind. Let him feel relaxed around you. He will fall in love with you for just that.
Don’t let him feel alone
Sometimes being with a busy man can be lonely. Do you know that busy men are also lonely? Don’t let him feel all alone. Give him the support that he needs. Make him think that you will always be there for him. It will strengthen your relationship.
Take him out for a break
Your man will experience burnout due to so much work. As a result, he may experience mood swings, sleepless nights, and anxiety and may even express his frustration by yelling at you. He may not realize that he needs a break. Take him out for a break so that he can relax. A trip or taking him to his favourite spots may be the proper antidote.
Normalize having short, quality conversations with him
Busy men don’t have time for drawn-out talks. Instead of talking about your day that he already knows, tell him the specifics and leave the rest. Utilize the little time you have with him and make short, meaningful conversations.
How to make someone fall in love
- Take good care of yourself. Your physical, emotional, mental and spiritual health matter. When your love interest sees that, they will fall for you.
- Be an interesting person to be with. Have a lot of fun together and make meaningful conversations.
- Share the same interests. People are often attracted to one another when they discover they like the same things.
- Share a lot of laughter. We’ve already talked about this before.
- Make them feel that you “get” them. They will feel special and appreciate you for this.
- Flirt with them often. Don’t be so uptight.
- Be kind and considerate. Try to be emotionally available.
- Be yourself. This cannot be overemphasized. Don’t be a fake person. It’s not worth the hate and feeling of being fooled that come afterwards.
In conclusion, no matter how much you want a man or anyone to fall in love with you, don’t lose yourself. Have some self-worth and keep an open mind. Good luck!
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