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7 easy ways to have a better love life in 2025

7 easy ways to have a better love life in 2025

Forming a healthy romantic relationship is hard these days. This is mostly because people are too busy chasing money that a love life has been dropped in the background.

But we all want love. We want someone we can be with and who wants to be with us, even do forever with. So no matter how much money you make, it all feels like a waste of effort if you do not have someone to share it with.

Having a supportive family, like your parents and siblings, and friends is okay. But they have their own life aspirations which may not include you. If you are longing for a long lasting and healthy love life in 2025, here are the 7 things you should do. These tips also apply if you are already in a relationship.

7 ways to have a better love life in 2025

1. Focus on self improvement

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You attract the type of person you are. We all have the qualities of the person we want to be in a romantic relationship with. Whether they are rich, beautiful, handsome, tall, short, athletic, the truth is you must position yourself well to attract the spec you want.

The first thing to do is self improvement. You need to work on yourself to weed out the negative things about you and enhance the positives. Granted, this does not guarantee you will be a perfect person, but it does make you a better person, putting you in a great position to land the partner of your dreams.

2. Be in locations where you will meet your type

Be in locations where you will meet your type
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Are you looking forward to a great relationship with a church girl or guy? Go to church. Not only that, involve yourself deeply in church activities. Be a member of a group or unit, to gain better access to your love interest.

The same strategy applies to other specs. No matter how saintly you are, you will not attract a partner by just sitting in your house watching Telemundo. Make the effort to go out or at least be active on social media. These days, people find love on social media.

3. Engage more in shared interests with your partner

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In this 2025, no more ‘I want’ if you want a great love life. Instead, focus on ‘we want’ in order to make your partner feel heard and seen. Before entering into a relationship, there had to be something that you and your love interest shared in common. It could be the same taste of music, same political views, same lifestyle. Overtime, you may not see any need to make any effort again, mainly due to the “see finish” syndrome.

However, maintaining shared interests with your partner will make your relationship fun. Do not sacrifice those beautiful moments for other life aspects. No matter what you do, ensure those interests remain intact.

4. Stop making comparisons

Stop making comparisons

Ayi Kwei Armah titled her widely popular novel, The Beautyful Ones Are Not Yet Born, and it is an apt description for everything about life. That fine girl you know has someone who is finer than her. The rich guy you know has someone who is far richer than he is.

Even you that like to compare your partner to others, it will shock you to know you are not all that when you come across certain people. So why would you compare your partner to your neighbour’s partner? If you think the person is perfect, you are deluding yourself.

Besides, comparing your partner with others may make them have self esteem issues and they are going to resent you for it. If you want a great love life in 2025, desist from this habit or you are going to learn the hard way.

5. Learn to say sorry and forgive

Learn to say sorry and forgive

The word, ‘sorry’ is small but mighty. It can calm destructive tempers down. However, if you constantly let your ego in the way, your love life will suffer. Apologise when you do wrong. Even if you are innocent, if saying sorry will restore peace in your relationship, do it.

While you imbibe the art of saying sorry, learn to forgive and let go. Another not-so fun fact is that no one is born perfect. So your partner is bound to offend you in one way or another. However, if they come to you full of repentance and asking for forgiveness, do so.

6. Set boundaries

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Tolerance is good in a relationship, but there should be a limit to what you can tolerate. This is why it is important to set your boundaries early so everyone will know what they should do or should not do.

It is best to set boundaries before you agree to enter into a romantic relationship. Let the other party understand what you can take or cannot take. If they like it, you can go ahead, if not, flee.

Here is another thing about setting boundaries early. It helps you identify red flags on time and do the needful. So to avoid posting ‘hide my identity’ on Facebook, set your boundaries early in your love life this 2025.

7. Talk it out

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Communication is the most important thing in a romantic relationship. When you and your partner are free to talk about anything under the sun with each other, then everything else will fall back into place.

In other words, focus on building a strong communication with your partner. Learn to talk about issues bothering you without fear of what might happen. Also, try to listen to your partner without interrupting or judging them. If you are able to sort out your communication issues, then expect a wonderful love life that can last a lifetime.

Conclusion

These are useful tips that can help you achieve a better love life in 2025. Remember you have to put in the effort. So choose who you want to be in a love life with wisely. It is better when you are with someone who not only wants to be with you, but understands you. There is nothing better than having someone who has your best interest at heart. If you can find that person, your world will be a better place.

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Nonye is a Thespian, screenwriter, creative writer and an unapologetic lover of books, great movies and sports. She has over 10 years experience in content writing on entertainment, movies, sports and lifestyle. Nonye is currently a content writer at Blackdot Media and founder of litafrik.com
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