A Nigerian TikTok content creator, Izzy Ogbeide(@izzy_ogbeide_backup) has given reasons why women should not disparage their family to their husbands.
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In her now-viral video, Izzy explained that talking to your husband about issues in your family can cause “see finish”.
She stated that only fully independent women can talk about their family to their husbands because the man is aware that she can leave him and still be fine.
Women who are dependent on their husbands, on the other hand, cannot do so because the man will use the information she has volunteered to insult her when they have issues.
Izzy mentioned that when you de-value your family to your husband, he will no longer respect them and will believe that they cannot protect you.
See the video below:
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Netizens react;
@agbigork: “if u no tell ur husband everything who u wan come tell again ?”
@iyoreov: “If you nor take this advice, body go tell you. Na time e go take!”
@taaatibg: “Even if a woman is capable, don’t reveal your Family’ stories to your husband. He will use it to insvlt you at will especially the immature ones.”
@nene_george: “Story of my life, I thought I was confiding in him without knowing I was tearing us apart, he started seeing my family differently afterwards and extended the animosity to me”
@obianuju_priscillia_: “She made very valid points.”
@queenmaureen58: “Not in all cases though.Some husbands and wives gossip pass besties… just marry right”
@yettykanny: “Women who do this will learn the hard way”
@officialqueendalen: “She is saying the fact”
@lush_diamond: “True, my friend was a victim… But why gossip your family to your husband… If the husband no mature you don enter problem”
