A man, @soulflows on TikTok, has revealed five ways to know when a man is forcing himself to love a lady.
According to him, the first sign is when the woman is the one initiating most aspects of the relationship.
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The second sign is when the man quickly suggests taking a break from the relationship after a minor disagreement.
The third sign is when the man is inconsistent in providing attention and other things in the relationship.
The fourth sign is when he attempts to change the woman’s identity and mould her into someone different.
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Lastly, it is a red flag if the woman’s presence appears to irritate him.
Watch the video below
@soulflows_f♬ Piano melody for loved ones(1258931) – naopapa
See reactions below:
@nahbilla_237: “Your contents are always educating, thanks for sharing.”
@treasurekay3: “My long distance no love me again abeg because he’s not consistent.”
@mavisivy4: “That’s what I was going through but it’s done now.”
@fosuaaaa101: “Am also forcing myself to love a man.”
@mirry326: “wat if u r already married for almost ten yrs wat do u do.”
@doricewesonga: “women you better be smart. you leave another one come in.”
@nnajicalebchidera: “In terms of changes, what if the woman that wants to change the man.”
@abigailfresh21: “I love your videos.”
@ukejesonia1: “I love my man 100%.”
@hannahkthompson0: “I believe you brother.”